First off, I know this is way too forward- But I'm just going to put this out there- I'm hearing WAY too often of couples getting divorced. We've been close too, we're all human and make mistakes. Have grace for your spouse. My advice to you is something I read in a book tonight "We did WHAT WE COULD with WHAT WE HAD and THEN GOD TOOK IT from there". Think (when you're not upset) about the long term picture, is this what's best, is whatever you're upset about something that is really worth shaking your precious children's lives over. We all know we can't change our spouses, but if YOU change, would it help the situation. If so, do it. You're worth it, your kids are worth it, and so is your spouse.
I think the last line says it all... You're worth it, your kids are worth it, and so is your spouse.
ReplyDeleteLike I always say "look at the big picture" then make all your little pictures (the things you say and do everyday) fit that big picture. You're ok. Your spouse is ok and your kids are ok. Sometimes you do need to think about the alternative to what you have to make you truly appreciate your situation better.♥