It is my intention to raise kind-hearted, Godly children.
We are using the book The Young Peacemaker, by Corlette Sande to help our children learn how to respond to conflict.
As we worked through our first lesson today, I realized that many of the quarrels I've faced as an adult were the result of either myself or someone else not following the guidelines for resolving conflict.
I'm sure this is something we all learned in Guidance class as elementary kids. I do questions though, at what point do grown men & women decide they no longer need to play fair? And why?
Friday, August 30, 2013
Making Peace Makers
Friday, August 23, 2013
18 inch doll PJ shirt & tu-tu
Because it was her first project we started off simple. We took a onesie that no longer fit her baby sister and hemmed it into a PJ shirt for the doll.
Thrifty and fun!
After that we stitched up a little piece of elastic and tied tons and tons and tons...and tons more of tulle around it to form a tutu!
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
What I Heard Wednesday: 8-21-13
So I'm telling the boy as we're creating a mini book that he needs to cut very carefully on the lines. His response to me in his laid back, 'I'm so cool' voice: "Yeah, so I can sell this thing to uncle Jeremy".
Yes son, those were my thoughts exactly! Uncle Jeremy would love to have a mini book all about Jack, who has a pack on his back that says QUACK!
The highlight of my day was when my princess came running up the stairs first thing in the morning and asked if she could start her math! Isn't that just music to a momma's ears? Lovely! She is such a great independent worker and I really appreciate her having a genuine love of learning. She is such a joy to be around and just radiates kindness wherever she goes. Love that girl!
School took a little longer today as we added in a few more subjects than we did yesterday. Truth be told, I didn't want to start school until after Labor day. But, I have eager learners, and there's no way I'm telling them to hold off on that sort of excitement.
I have been working on laundry all day. Literally, the whole day. I even decided to be an overachiever and change the sheets on our beds. The baby just had her sheets changed so I did everyone else's while she was napping.
Long story short, I went in to get her from her nap and her sheet was soaked.. and there sat her dry diaper that I got out, but forgot to put on her! Hey look on the bright side though, now everyone's sheets have been washed on the same day. I decided not too be too hard on myself, I mean forgetting to change a diaper once in 10 months isn't so bad, and she didn't seem to mind one bit.
Saturday, August 17, 2013
2013-2014 Homeschool Curriculum Choices
Well folks, we.are.crazy.
Yep, I said crazy. At least that's what people keep asking us, "are you guys crazy?"We've got 3 kids ages; 10, 6, and 9 months. And we've decided to homeschool both of the big kids this year! *warm smile*. I'm not one of those moms who can't wait to get her kids back in school each August.
In fact, I'm the mom who is always thanking God for one more day with my kids. A few years ago I had some unexplained health problems and thought I was dying. I had funeral plans and everything, pretty dramatic, right? Well ever since then I've vowed to live each day as if it were my last. And on my last days, I want to be spending them with my family.
I feel so blessed that I have a husband who provides for our family so I am able to stay home and raise our children. We prayed that we'd be able to afford homeschooling, because it is more expensive than public school initially. God has come through for us on this one in so many random ways. I'll do a post on that another time. :)
I have spent literally years researching what to use for books & doing online training and research for teaching my dyslexic daughter. I have just been too chicken to commit to doing it full time. I'm very appreciative that in the mean time she has had a kind-hearted teacher at the public school who has taken my baby girl under her wing and educated her.
God has gently nudged me for 3 years, and now I hear him telling me that it's time. Each time I tell Him "No God, I can't do this" or "Please God, let me be at peace with sending them to school and see what I'll do with all of my free time" (oh, can you just imagine how quiet my days would be), I hear him saying back "quit making excuses, I've got your back". Well, He hasn't let me down before, and I don't believe that He will now.
I was blessed to meet with two friends this week, who gave me incredible insight on different curriculum options.
So, here's the plan, Stan!
I know we will get a rhythm and things will fall into place. I am a super organized person, so feeling uncertain in this area is tough. But, I wont let it get me down. We will figure out what works for us and go with it!
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
DIY: 18 Inch American Girl Knock Off Turns Into a BOY!
My sweet girl is trying to earn a new doll that looks like her mini-me.
The doll that she bought last year had blonde hair and blue eyes, looking an awful lot like her brother.
so we decided to turn the old doll into a boy doll. This is what she gave her brother for his birthday. He likes it.
My sister in law gave the doll a haircut at her salon.
We dressed this little guy in old Build A Bear clothes. The clothes were a little big. I am imagine preemie or newborn clothes would fit really well.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Memories for the boy.
It's nearly midnight, I'm exhausted & I want to crash. But tomorrow my only boy turns 6!! This quick set up took less than 10 minutes and I had everything already on hand. I know it's not pretty. I also know my son will love it regardless. Making memories for my children is my favorite thing to do these days. A week from now he won't care that the streamers were pink & the only gift he had in the morning was bubble wrap on the floor. He loves that stuff!
But he will remember that his momma loved him and took time to surprise him with the fun things that little boys love. That's all that matters.... I'm making memories for someday when I'm no longer here to do these things for him.
I hope he never forgets that he was prayed for and loved. It's his special day, but I feel like I am the one who received a gift. My boy.
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Organizing clothes
I bought one of these little gems last year for my daughter. It was perfect for organizing her clothes for the week.
Each Sunday we picked out 5 outfits. The Monday outfit was placed on top, and Tues-Fri's were put into the drawers.
Once in a while we would put Monday-Thursday in the drawers, and Friday would be her free day to pick whatever she wanted to wear.
It revolutionized our morning routine and saved so much time!
I also bought one to use in our school room to organize supplies and books. That one ended up not being used as well as I'd hoped. I bought that one in black so I can use it anywhere else I need to.
They are on sale at Shopko right now & I highly recommend them!
Thursday, August 1, 2013
Watch over my family
http://bible.us/97/2SA7.28.MSG
The verse of the day was perfectly fitting for my mood this morning.
“And now, Master God , being the God you are, speaking sure words as you do, and having just said this wonderful thing to me, please, just one more thing: Bless my family; keep your eye on them always. You’ve already as much as said that you would, Master God ! Oh, may your blessing be on my family permanently!”
It's a scary thing to think I may not always be able to watch over my family.
Sending the kids off to school leaves me feeling helpless. I can't be there to troubleshoot any problems they have, or to comfort them from the harsh words they will at some point be told.
The thought that someday I won't be here at all for them, or for my husband is an even worse feeling. I don't think I'm so important that they won't survive without me. But I do think things would be tough for them at first. I've started training the older kids to fold and put away their own laundry, as well as do their dishes. I've planted the seed of Christ in them and helped them to develop friendships. I've taught two of them to be honest in all situations, and I'm still working on teaching the littlest one. ;)
I believe:
Having a love for Christ
Being honest
Knowing how to be a friend (& being compassionate)
Basic communication & people reading skills
Are a few of the most important keys to a happy life.

